โ22-01-2021 07:33 PM
โ22-01-2021 07:33 PM
Ohhhh poor @Shaz51 ... so much happening, and all at once too.
I hope your Mum is feeling a bit better now, and that Mr Shaz's rash starts to improve.
You may well be right ... carer burnout may well be whats happening.
The nurse was very thoughtless and naughty to make you feel to blame for them not phoning you.
No use saying to you to take some time out ... I know you cant.
But I wish you could get some additional help, at least with your mums needs.
Hopefully you can have a bit of time out for yourself over the weekend.
Has the cyclone gone now? You mentioned you had no power for a while today.
Hugs my friend.
Emelia ๐ค๐
โ22-01-2021 08:02 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:02 PM
Can you get a bath in tonight?
โ22-01-2021 08:22 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:22 PM
no bath here @Former-Member , @Emelia8
The house we cleaned this morning with no power and water , the owner arrived home to day and rang me up to talk about the housesiter, she stopped taking her meds and she was a mess when we were there
mum has had dinner and a shower
going to wash the dishes now
โ22-01-2021 08:34 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:34 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:36 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:36 PM
Going to dry the dishes and then a shower @Anastasia , @Former-Member , @Emelia8 , @Mellysmellyelly , @Determined
โ22-01-2021 08:44 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:44 PM
๐๐๐ @Shaz51 ....... hugs n hugs Hon ..... that's so tough going. The hospital must have been repeat-dialling the wrong number.
โ22-01-2021 08:48 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:48 PM
Are you able to get in a mini self care item tonight @Shaz51?
โ22-01-2021 08:55 PM - edited โ22-01-2021 08:57 PM
โ22-01-2021 08:55 PM - edited โ22-01-2021 08:57 PM
I think soo too @Faith-and-Hope , but the nurse kept going and going saying she had the right number and it was all my foult
dont know why , it was sooo upsetting to be called a liar
and it would of been so late , they close the hospital doors at a certain time
the other nurse said mum had a bed and had a good nights sleep
they rang mum`s sister this morning and then would not let her take mum home , arrggggg
mr shaz is having a shower now @Former-Member
โ22-01-2021 09:39 PM
โ22-01-2021 09:39 PM
Thank you @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Anastasia , @Emelia8 I am off to bed ๐ฅฐโคโค๐๐
โ22-01-2021 09:46 PM
โ22-01-2021 09:46 PM
Good night @Shaz51 ... sleep soundly. ๐๐ค
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