Parents Supporting Unwell Adult Children

[Mumslove]

Hi Shaz, lm ok a little confused frightened oh l mixture of emotions really. I am functioning ok tho l almost feel guilty when l am enjoying the solitude and not coming home and straight into the mind of my sons delusions when he can't get solitude etc l received a message today they are going to court tomorrow (I'm have no idea what occurs lm still awaiting on a call back) so much anxiety but l will get through it. Thank you for asking. Now that l have babbled on l hope that this reply find you well? How are you? Hope you had a lovely day 

[Faith-and-Hope]

Good to hear you are feeling welcome @Mumslove.  If you have any questions that will help you find your way around post them into the forums and someone with help

you with them.  @Shaz51 and I are two of the Commhnuty Guides - community members who have usually been here a while who help to answer questions and provide some direction if it's needed.

[Anastasia]

Hello @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51 @Mumslove @MumO @LinnyLou @Sophia1 all here 💕

@MumNeedsHelp has joined so please say hi 🙏

I brought us all a cuppa

☕☕☕☕☕☕☕

[Faith-and-Hope]

Hi @MumNeedsHelp and welcome .... 👋

I am in online classes today so can't stick around right now .... then have to support all three of my dependent ones this afternoon.  Hope y'all have an okay day.

[MumNeedsHelp]

@Faith-and-Hope thank you! Hopefully chat sometime soon. Have a great day 😊

[Shaz51]

Hello @MumNeedsHelp , @Faith-and-Hope , @Anastasia , @Mumslove , @MumO 

How is everyone this afternoon  xx

[MumNeedsHelp]

Hi @Shaz51 ,
Not too bad today. I've just had a covid test -pretty sure it's just a shocking cold, but doing the right thing. Had 2 pretty good days with my daughter. We are in lockdown but she is able to work, which is great for her. I just get anxious every time she leaves the house. But I'm trying to relax and give her the benefit of the doubt instead of trying to predict the future. 
How about yourself? 

[Shaz51]

hello @MumNeedsHelp 

are are you and your daughter tonight xxx

my D1 has a cold but she had to have a covid test today to see

i am a bit tired tonight with caring for my eldrly mum

my husband has bipolar 2 and other problems 

my S2 texted me today with some photos asking if there were herbs or weeds -- ( i said they are weeds )

@Faith-and-Hope, @Anastasia 

[MumNeedsHelp]

@Shaz51 My daughter is in high spirits so it's been a good night, thank you for asking. You sound like you have a full plate. I hope you manage to get a good nights sleep xx
That's cute about your son. I remember once I asked my son to pick me some thyme from the herb garden and he bought me back some weeds haha.

Silly question; does D1 mean daughter, first born and S2, son 2nd born? 🙂

[Shaz51]

Yes @MumNeedsHelp ❤

Makes it easier as I have 3 sons and one daughter

So D1, S1, S2, , S3, my step children 

Yes D1 has to postpone her wedding due to covid19 

All my children have some degree of mental illness like their dad but trying to cope their way 

Hope you have a good day  

Seeing kidney specialist and about my hearing aid  today after morning work